睽
Hexagram 38 · 睽
Upper trigram: 離 · Lower trigram: 兌
Kui (Opposition): the hexagram of diverging perspectives. Preserve useful differences, clear up suspicion, and begin with small agreements.
The image
Fire rises above the lake while water tends downward. The two images share a setting but move differently. Kui means opposition or estrangement. Its picture asks how people can remain connected without pretending that their perspectives or aims are identical.
Judgment
小事吉。
Good fortune in small matters.
The commentary finds cooperation possible even between things that differ. Two departments with conflicting priorities may first agree on a small reporting change instead of demanding immediate unity on every objective.
Great Image
上火下澤,睽;君子以同而異。
Fire above and the lake below: Opposition. The exemplary person accordingly remains together with others while preserving difference.
Agreement need not require uniformity. Friends can share a thoughtful conversation while maintaining different views, provided each understands the other's reasons.
Line texts
Line 1 · 初九
悔亡,喪馬勿逐,自復;見惡人无咎。
Regret disappears. The horse is lost; do not pursue it, for it returns by itself. Meeting an unpleasant person brings no blame.
Nine in the first place is yang learning not to force a separated connection. The Small Image favors civil contact to avoid fault, like remaining courteous to a difficult colleague without chasing their approval.
Line 2 · 九二
遇主于巷,无咎。
Meeting the lord in a narrow lane. No blame.
Nine in the second place is central yang corresponding with the fifth yin through an informal meeting. The Small Image finds no departure from the way, like resolving a small misunderstanding through a quiet direct conversation.
Line 3 · 六三
見輿曳,其牛掣,其人天且劓,无初有終。
Seeing the carriage dragged back, its ox restrained, and its driver marked on the forehead and deprived of the nose. No beginning, but there is an end.
Six in the third place is yin out of position amid obstructing forces. The Small Image looks to meeting firm support, like a stalled collaboration becoming workable once the right responsible partner is reached.
Line 4 · 九四
睽孤,遇元夫,交孚,厲无咎。
Alone in opposition, one meets a genuine man and exchanges trust. Danger, but no blame.
Nine in the fourth place is isolated yang finding sincere contact with another firm line. The Small Image allows its purpose to proceed, like discovering an honest collaborator outside one's familiar professional circle.
Line 5 · 六五
悔亡,厥宗噬膚,往何咎。
Regret disappears. One's kin bites through soft flesh. Going forward, what blame is there?
Six in the fifth place is central yin corresponding with the second yang. The Small Image sees benefit in that easy opening, like a trusted intermediary removing a minor barrier between two colleagues.
Line 6 · 上九
睽孤,見豕負塗,載鬼一車,先張之弧,後說之弧,匪寇婚媾,往遇雨則吉。
Alone in opposition, one sees a pig covered in mud and a cart loaded with ghosts. First the bow is drawn, afterward relaxed. Not a raider, but a marriage seeker. Going forward and meeting rain brings good fortune.
Nine at the top is yang whose isolation breeds suspicion before correspondence becomes clear. The Small Image says doubts dissolve, like rereading an alarming message after learning the sender's actual intention.
When asking about
Career
Different priorities often need a limited practical agreement. Clarify motives before treating disagreement as hostility.
Love
Differences can coexist with affection. Ask for clarification when an unfamiliar response triggers suspicion.
Money
Shared decisions may expose contrasting priorities. Begin with a small agreement both people understand.
Home
Family members need not prefer identical routines. Find workable boundaries around the differences that matter.
Study
Contrasting interpretations can sharpen understanding. Compare evidence before deciding that one perspective has no value.
Health
Give a tense mood room to settle through ordinary rest. See a doctor for any health concern.
Advice
Start with the small point where cooperation is possible. Keep your own judgment while testing whether suspicion rests on facts or misunderstanding.
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