姤

Hexagram 44 · 姤

Upper trigram: 乾 · Lower trigram: 巽

Gou (Coming to Meet): the hexagram of an influential encounter. Notice what enters your life and set clear limits before committing.

The image

Heaven stands above wind, which moves beneath and reaches widely. A single yin line enters below five yang lines. Gou means meeting, especially an encounter whose influence can grow quickly. The image asks for awareness of a new force before familiarity turns into a binding commitment.

Judgment

女壯,勿用取女。

The woman is strong. Do not take this woman in marriage.

The commentary treats the meeting of yielding and firm as powerful, while warning against making this particular encounter permanent. Beyond the ancient marriage image, an attractive business offer may deserve careful limits before a long commitment is made.

Great Image

天下有風,姤;后以施命誥四方。

Wind beneath heaven: Coming to Meet. The ruler accordingly issues commands and makes them known in the four directions.

A clear message can reach many places without physical force. When circumstances change, an organization benefits from explaining the same practical expectations consistently to every team.

Line texts

  1. Line 1 · 初六

    系于金柅,貞吉,有攸往,見凶,羸豕,孚,蹢躅。

    Fastened to a metal brake. Constancy brings good fortune. Going anywhere reveals misfortune. A lean pig is truly eager to leap about.

    Six in the first place is new yin whose movement needs an early limit. The Small Image describes restraining its course, like setting boundaries around a tempting distraction before it takes over working hours.

  2. Line 2 · 九二

    包有魚,无咎,不利賓。

    There is a fish in the wrapping. No blame. It is not beneficial to offer it to guests.

    Nine in the second place is central yang containing the new influence close by. The Small Image limits its extension, like testing an unfamiliar arrangement privately before recommending it to the whole organization.

  3. Line 3 · 九三

    臀无膚,其行次且,厲,无大咎。

    The buttocks have no skin, and walking is hesitant. Danger, but no great blame.

    Nine in the third place is yang uncomfortable but not yet drawn into the encounter. The Small Image notes that freedom from attachment, like hesitating over an unsuitable invitation and retaining room to decline.

  4. Line 4 · 九四

    包无魚,起凶。

    There is no fish in the wrapping. Misfortune arises.

    Nine in the fourth place is yang separated from the first yin with which it corresponds. The Small Image connects this with distance from people, like a manager losing useful contact by neglecting ordinary staff concerns.

  5. Line 5 · 九五

    以杞包瓜,含章,有隕自天。

    Wrapping a melon with willow branches, keeping excellence within. Something falls from heaven.

    Nine in the fifth place is central and correct yang holding its quality quietly. The Small Image keeps its purpose attentive to a larger charge, like a leader providing patient protection while waiting for circumstances to clarify.

  6. Line 6 · 上九

    姤其角,吝,无咎。

    Meeting with the horns. Humiliation, but no blame.

    Nine at the top is yang too distant and rigid for an easy encounter. The Small Image locates the difficulty at the extreme, like declining involvement appropriately but discovering that a harsh manner has made the exchange awkward.

When asking about

Career

An unexpected contact can have a strong influence. Test the working relationship before making a lasting commitment.

Love

Attraction may arrive before understanding. Keep boundaries clear and avoid mistaking intensity for compatibility.

Money

A persuasive offer deserves careful examination. Limit commitments until its terms and responsibilities are understood.

Home

A new habit or visitor can change household dynamics. Discuss expectations early and respectfully.

Study

A new idea may redirect attention usefully. Examine its foundations before letting it displace established work.

Health

Notice which new habits affect sleep, rest, and mood. See a doctor for any health concern.

Advice

Meet the new influence with attention rather than automatic acceptance. Set limits early, keep communication clear, and let commitment follow understanding.

Related hexagrams

Weighing a decision? Cast a hexagram for your own question.

Cast a hexagram

Reference content based on the I Ching classic, not a prediction.